Emo Guys
Emo Guys. They are stylish,
sweet, and mysterious. Or are
they mean, oversensitive , and
depressed. A lot of people think
they know what emo guys are
like. But the truth is that
there are a lot of different
personality types that join emo
and emo itself is not even a
clear term. But let’s explore
“emo guys” anyway by hearing
what the they themselves and
their friends have to say. Perhaps,
if we can’t define “emo boys” we
can get a clearer sense of the
variety and make sense of the
patterns we see.
They are Deeper
“Exceedingly emotional, the Emo
Boy is very artistic and
expresses a great deal of his
emotions through poetry, music
or art. This species is very
open with his feelings and will
not hesitate to declare undying
love to the object of his
desire.”
“They are deep and caring and
dont care whether you are "cool"
or not.”
This
might have some truth. A lot of
boys relate to emo because of…
well… the emotions and
expressiveness. Therefore, these
guys are probably more in touch
with themselves, and thus, have
more originality in their
beliefs. Right brained
individuals have many emo
characteristics such as
sensitivity, creativity,
introversion, and deeper
emotions.
Emo guys are Sweeter
than normal guys
“im dating an emo
boy and hes realy sweet but,
they all have diff
personalities”
“GENERALLy in my opinion emo
boys are better than
those preppy and hip hop guys..
They are Way more mature than those arrogant boys
and don't think they are coolest thing ever.
“they care and understand your feelings
and are generally more loving than other stereotypes
once they fall in love. “
And Ive seen other stereotypes more loving and sweeter
than emos, Im talking generally and based on my opinion and exprience.”
those preppy and hip hop guys..
They are Way more mature than those arrogant boys
and don't think they are coolest thing ever.
“they care and understand your feelings
and are generally more loving than other stereotypes
once they fall in love. “
And Ive seen other stereotypes more loving and sweeter
than emos, Im talking generally and based on my opinion and exprience.”
Like
we discussed in
Emo Love, emos tend to feel every emotion
deeper because they are right
brained, so it would be no
surprise to hear that a lot of
them are compassionate towards
other people. Right brained
people are in fact so
compassionate, they often get
involved in politics and
activism.
Emo guys are Depressed,
Overdramatic, and Mean
“This
emo guy I’m seeing is nic, but
some of them are just plain
a55holes”
“They are too much drama. I once
met an emo guy, and he acted
like he was on his period. He
was crying one minute, telling
me how red hair was valued in
the European gothic culture,
then crying again. It was too
much for me, but I guess that
because I'm a sporty and a
little bit nerdy (Just because I
get straight A's, lol.) prep. =]
But, I'm sure not every one is
like that.”
“ Emos come in all flavours. My friend is an emo but also an asshole.”
“ Emos come in all flavours. My friend is an emo but also an asshole.”
“Just because they are "emo"
doesnt mean they all have one
personality just like every
normal person they all have
different personalitys. I know a
few 'scene/emo' people and some
are nice others are jerks, some
shy others outgoing, coceited,
and self consious.”
“Okay....Emo
guys make me SO mad!....They are
cool and GREAT to hang out with
and be around...but why do they
think they can get you to do
what they want by sayin' they're
going to kill themselves because
they're soooo depressed, when
they KNOW and they know you KNOW
they won't do it if they told
somebody?!...”
These people seem to try to stay
neutral in their opinions that
there are all sorts of emos out
there, but they seem to also
notice that there actually are
depressed, overdramatic, and
even mean emos out there.
Just like
any other group of people, they
seem to have their extremes –
good and bad. So why might emo
boys be this way sometimes?
Well, some music in emo is
definitely about bitterness and
depression. So it is going to
attract those kind of people in
naturally.
But
everyone has some angst, even
positive people, and so a lot of
people are going to be able to
relate to emo and join. In
addition, Emo music is also
about a wide range of other
emotions that people can relate
to deeply, including positive
emotions. So that is probably
why there is so much variety.
Because emo music is so strong
about the emotions, you will get
more people on average who are
more extreme with their
emotions. On
a side note, in terms of
shyness, the traditional emo
mindset is probably more shy
because they spend a lot of time
in their head exploring their
feelings
Emo guys are really
into their Looks
Isn’t that a girl’s dream come
true? A boy who loves fashion.
Not only would he look good next
to your arm as a second self
walking accessory, but he would
also *gasp* go shopping with
you?!
According to some insider
sources and the obvious, this
claim has a lot of truth to it.
You have to be into your looks
to be emo. The hair is left long
and parted to one side, dyed
black. Tight clothes are put on.
Makeup is put on. Now if that
isn’t caring a lot about looks,
I don’t know what is. They pride
themselves on the skinny look.
And add to that, extra emotions…
They are pretty much women! But
to other girls, they are manlier
and sexier than ever. I call it
the Johnny Depp pirate effect.
Go figure.
“Is
it just me, or are emo boys
really hot at the moment? That
combination of funky clothes,
super stylish hair and 'I don't
give a damn' attitude is so
cool, and I never knew how good
a little kohl could look on a
guy - intense!”
“yesssss, i love the emo look.
and i love the tight jeans, and there hair.
=] imsingleeee ;] lol”
and i love the tight jeans, and there hair.
=] imsingleeee ;] lol”
Emo guys like to kiss
... other Emo guys
Search online about emo boys and
you are bound to find images of
them kissing or frolicking like
it’s an Abercrombie calendar.
What is up with that and is
there any truth to it? Take a
look at the testimonials from
people and even a bisexual emo
himself.
“i love them in
some ways,,,the bad thing is
when you see a really cute one
and then you realize hes
gay,,>:(..is so horrible,,but
there kind of cute if there good
emo guys not some lame guy that
does not want to talk with you”
“They're usually bi... but I
think its because they (or maybe
i should say we) have learned
not to abide by society's rules.
We prefer to be unorthodox.”
“im
emo and to answer that wuestion
is because the emish subculture
is more intuned and tolerant
with their emotions. its alright
to be sad and you know everyone
hhas problems but its ok but
yeah i mean im 15 and im bi but
its just i don't know emo guys
are hot and its just a way gay
guys can act more gay. I mean im
kinda bi i like to have fun more
with a guy than a girl but yeah
theres not that many emo girls
bucase girls are ussualy always
intuend with their emotions its
just a matter of whjen is the
right time to express them”
“Most of the ones I've met are
straight. Nobody chooses their
sexuality, so I guess you could
said we're all born the way that
we are.”
It seems that emo boys do tend to be more bisexual on average. This is probably because as some of the testimonies suggest, the emo culture is more accepting of bisexuality. In addition, gay or bisexual guys get to dress up real fancy as a part of the emo subculture… can a gay person ask for more? I think this myth is deemed plausible. I think there is a correlation... not a confirmation, but an extra tendency.
It seems that emo boys do tend to be more bisexual on average. This is probably because as some of the testimonies suggest, the emo culture is more accepting of bisexuality. In addition, gay or bisexual guys get to dress up real fancy as a part of the emo subculture… can a gay person ask for more? I think this myth is deemed plausible. I think there is a correlation... not a confirmation, but an extra tendency.
Conclusion
So
what can we make of everything
we just discussed? With fashion,
deep emotions, and sensitivity,
it looks like emo boys are
dreams come true if they don’t
indulge in the other negative
feelings. In
addition, with the variety of
viewpoints, it
should get rid of the stereotype
that there is such a thing as
one type of emo boy. Instead, it
should help you gain some
insight into their subculture
and appreciate the variety of so
called emo guys.
With
this in mind, I think it is okay
to explore their commonalities
because it is intriguing. Emo
guys can be mysterious, gentle,
and beautiful in their many
expressions. Maybe it’ll
motivate you to go interact with
them and see for yourself how
they really are.Emo Girls
Emo girls. They are sexy,
deep, and mysterious. Or are
they fun, bubbly, and kind. Or
perhaps they're whiny, needy,
and full of drama? A lot of
people think they know what emo
girls are like. But the truth is
that there are a lot of
different personality types that
join emo and emo itself is not
even a clear term. But let’s
explore “emo girls” anyway by
hearing what the girls
themselves and their friends
have to say. Perhaps, if
we can’t define “emo girls”
we can get a clearer sense of
the variety and make sense of
the patterns we see.
Some “emo girls” dress
Flashy, some dress more Dark
“There's one
uniting thread: emo girls are
females who like the same style.
They're diverse
personality-wise. Everyone seems
to think we all think we're
being "unique" by dressing the
same way, but seriously, we just
like the style. There are
woe-is-me
emo kids, there are
hyper-as-hell emo kids...
approach it the same way you
would any other girl but for the
love of GOD don't refer to them
as though they're an army of
clones.”
This
girl seems to base emo’s
definition entirely on fashion,
So in that case, she is talking
about Scene girls as we
discussed in the “What Is Emo”.
Traditional emos are actually
more into the attitude and emo
music. Scene girls go for
fashion inspired by the emo
look. So what do Scene girls
look like and how can you tell
them apart from emo girls? This
is important to note because
most people can’t tell the
difference. Here
is what one girl noted down in
her observations of both:
Scene:
- Bright colors
- Ginormous hair
- Lots of colorful eye makeup
- Vans slip-ons
- Happy
- Colorful hair (Take for example the singer of Paramore, of which all those apply)
- Bandanas
- Bright colors
- Ginormous hair
- Lots of colorful eye makeup
- Vans slip-ons
- Happy
- Colorful hair (Take for example the singer of Paramore, of which all those apply)
- Bandanas
It's
like taking an emo and having
Rainbow-Brite throw up on it.
Emo:
- Dark colors
- Stripes
- Converse sneakers
- Quiet
- Darker hair colors
- Lots of eyeliner
- Studded belts
- More band merch
- Black nail-polish
Similarities:
- Skinny jeans
- Side bangs and/or straight across bangs
- Bows
- Dense amount of bracelets
- Various facial piercings
- Music
Emo:
- Dark colors
- Stripes
- Converse sneakers
- Quiet
- Darker hair colors
- Lots of eyeliner
- Studded belts
- More band merch
- Black nail-polish
Similarities:
- Skinny jeans
- Side bangs and/or straight across bangs
- Bows
- Dense amount of bracelets
- Various facial piercings
- Music
So
scene girls typically have a
more flamboyant way of dressing.
They typically have more
colorful, larger hair as well as
more colorful clothing whereas
Emo subculture girls tend to
have flatter hair with more
black colors all around. Of
course, there is everywhere in
between as well. One girl stated
that she considered herself half
emo and half normal.
Emo Girl
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Scene Girl
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They look so Skinny
They tend to be skinnier for two main reasons. One, if you are more traditionally emo, you eat less to get that more frail look. Scene, being inspired by emo, borrows that tight fitting look which only skinnier girls can pull off well. Another reason is because emo and scene tend to be vegan or vegetarian, and like many vegetarians who don’t carefully plan their diet, they get skinnier, because it is harder to find a variety of food. But keep in mind the internet is mostly going to show you sexy emo and scene girls. There are heavier emo/scene girls out there. But overall, on average, scene girls tend to be skinnier.
They tend to be skinnier for two main reasons. One, if you are more traditionally emo, you eat less to get that more frail look. Scene, being inspired by emo, borrows that tight fitting look which only skinnier girls can pull off well. Another reason is because emo and scene tend to be vegan or vegetarian, and like many vegetarians who don’t carefully plan their diet, they get skinnier, because it is harder to find a variety of food. But keep in mind the internet is mostly going to show you sexy emo and scene girls. There are heavier emo/scene girls out there. But overall, on average, scene girls tend to be skinnier.
Emo girls are so Fun,
Bubbly, and they are Kind ...
“Well i tell you what, I've
talked to girls who dress like
that and some of them are some
of the nicest people you'll ever
meet.”
Commentary: They say the scene
girls tend to be more like this.
But even more traditional emo
girls who are more introverted
and shy can have this side come
out of them with someone they
can relate to and trust.
Like we discussed in
Emo Love
section, emos tend to
feel every emotion deeper
because they are right brained,
so it would be no surprise to
hear that a lot of them are
compassionate towards other
people.
Emo girls are so Overdramatic, Shy, and Sad – public perceive and personal experiences
Emo girls are so Overdramatic, Shy, and Sad – public perceive and personal experiences
From
people who know emo girls:
“A
lot of people don’t like emo
girls…. Like they are dramatic
and defensive and whine a lot
and needy.”
“[About cutting]They do that
because they let their anger
out. I have never done that
befoer but i have a lucky guess.
I've seen alot of emo's do
that.”
There are some emos who are
actually overdramatic and sad.
Part of the emo culture does
going beyond merely exploring
feelings and into glamorizing
bitterness and drama. So
naturally, many people will join
emo because they identify with
the pain. But even if they do
this, we need to have a more
understanding attitude in order
to help them. Read this section
to see what some of them are
going through.
On
an even deeper level, if they
don’t have heart breaking
stories they can share, maybe
they had experiences as children
they can’t remember. The point
is that everyone has a reason
for the way they are, and it is
our job to help, not put others
down to make ourselves feel
better.
In terms of shyness, the s traditional emo mindset is more introverted because they spend a lot of time in their head exploring their feelings. But even introverted people can be very social. Especially one on one with people they know, they can talk your ear off. But the difference is that when talking to multiple people, they can tire easily and need to recharge. As for scene girls, since they just like the fashion, they may be extroverted and be comfortable with being social without tire.
In terms of shyness, the s traditional emo mindset is more introverted because they spend a lot of time in their head exploring their feelings. But even introverted people can be very social. Especially one on one with people they know, they can talk your ear off. But the difference is that when talking to multiple people, they can tire easily and need to recharge. As for scene girls, since they just like the fashion, they may be extroverted and be comfortable with being social without tire.
Emo girls
tend to have more
Personality and Depth
From
someone who know emo girls:
“I’ve dated a few emo girls and
it’s great. I like [them]due to
their attitude… it's more
emotionally deep”
This might have some truth. A lot of girls relate to emo because of… well… the emotions and expressiveness. Therefore, these girls are probably more in touch with themselves, and thus, have more originality in their beliefs.
This might have some truth. A lot of girls relate to emo because of… well… the emotions and expressiveness. Therefore, these girls are probably more in touch with themselves, and thus, have more originality in their beliefs.
Emo girls
are Easy
Some
people… especially guys wonder
this question, because of the
way these girls dress. After
all, emo girls have a lot of
makeup and wear tight fitting
clothes with wild hair. Here is
what emo girls and the general
public has to say.
From
Emo/Scene girls themselves:
“im scene, and im not slutty. i flirt alot, but thats just me and my personality. i dont generally find myself easy, actually quite the opposite! i need to have a great relationship with someone before i even dream about getting horizontal =]”
From people who know emo girls:
“im scene, and im not slutty. i flirt alot, but thats just me and my personality. i dont generally find myself easy, actually quite the opposite! i need to have a great relationship with someone before i even dream about getting horizontal =]”
From people who know emo girls:
“One
of my best friends is scene.
Shes not slutty at all. She is
the most funny and coolest
person to hangout with. Sadly,
there are a lot of slutty girls,
whether they are scene or not.”
“A
few of my friends (ok... 2) are
scene/emo/goth, and well, not
all of them are particularly
slutty.”
“Well I've dated a couple of
scene girls (one of em' was
REALLY scene) and they weren't
slutty at all!”
“I
really hate to be stereotypical
here, but I'm speaking from
personal experience. I used to
be a part of the emo/scene crowd
and I found that most of the
girls... how do I say this...
they were "easy" to say in the
nicest way. They seem to have an
edge to them and guys maybe
think or know that they can get
with her easily.”
I
think from all of this, it is
pretty clear that there is not
much correlation since there are
plenty of people to vouch for
emo girls having a sense of
value. About that last girl’s
comment about them being easy,
it’s possible that some girls
into scene to get attention and
sleep around more. In addition,
there are plenty of self
respecting girls who are not
easy but choose to be more
promiscuous. Either way, based
on various testimonies, such
“easy” girls are probably a
minority. So overall, it looks
emo girls are not really any
easier than normal girls.
Emo girls are somewhere in between all of these things
Emo girls are somewhere in between all of these things
"my
friends call me emo.. my bf is
pretty well-rounded lol.. i
guess it's more of personality
for me rather than looks or what
type of image the guy
portrays... not all "emo" girls
are the same.. i guess im more
on the half emo half "normal"
type of girl."
I
think this shows that there is
much more variety among girls
than stereotypes suggest.
It’s just
like how some people are kinda
agnostic as opposed to full on
Atheist or Christian.
Conclusion
So
what can we make of everything
we just discussed? If anything,
it should get rid of the
stereotype that there is such a
thing as one type of emo girl.
Instead, it should help you gain
some insight into their
subculture and appreciate the
variety of so called emo girls.
With
this in mind, I think it is okay
to explore their commonalities
because it is intriguing. Emo
girls can be mysterious,
colorful, and beautiful in their
many expressions. Maybe it’ll
motivate you to go interact with
them and see for yourself how
they really areEmo Love ^_^
Love
between two emos can be
extremely strong and powerful.
This is because, guess what …
they are very emotional!
With emos, a great deal of time
is spent looking inside in a
world of imagination, deep
thoughts, which tend to be
related to very strong feelings.
Emo love reminds me of a book
called Upside Down
Brilliance by Linda
Silverman, she says that it is
right-brained people who are
introspective, musical, and
highly emotional. They are
blessed with the emotional
capacity to be creative,
empathize, and of course, love
deeper than others! But these
right-brained children are also
more sensitive, and thus were
more prone to be hurt or
traumatized by peers or parents.
Dating guru Sean Messenger
agrees that such hurt children
begin to turn inwards away from
the world and explore what is
inside.
Many
grow up to spend a lot of time
alone for such things as
reading, philosophy, music, and
writing poems. During this time,
they are in a unique and complex
world that no one seems to
really understand - even
friends. And this is why it can
be so powerful when two emos
meet. It can feel like you were
meant to be. Finally, you have
someone to share all of these
deep and wonderful emotions
with, someone who can feel your
deepest pains… someone who
gets you. So live
it up. Love like you’ve never
loved before. Play, laugh, cry,
and cherish your inner child
together. You may experience
some of the highest emotions of
life as an emo who has found
love. It is a blessing for
someone to allow you to see such
intimate sides of themselves,
and this is what it means to be
in love.
But
beware! This is also why Emo
partners can be especially
sensitive to hurt from their
partners. The inner child still
sees itself as fragile and has
finally found long awaited
salvation from past hurt through
romantic love. Now you guys are
expected to take care of each
other’s fragility. When the
inner child is showing itself
and entrusting itself to another
person, it is vulnerable. The
inner child’s highest joys and
deepest pains from what is
really personally inside will
come to the forefront. Arguments
over nothing may become
everything. It can be shocking.
But don't fall for it. The pain
is not caused by you. You've just
exposed it. Just be there for
them like you would a crying
child and own up to any mistakes
you've made.
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It can be very scary to have the
person closest to you deliver
you the greatest hurt. At its
worst, tears will roll. Words
will fly. And flaming locusts
will descend from the
netherworlds to end all that you
know. You may be in for one emo-tional
rollercoaster! This is what
happens when expectations to be
each other’s saviors from pain
are not met. But as John Legend
says, we are just ordinary
people. We can’t be perfect
lovers. So if you keep all this
in mind, you will be prepared
and know your emo partner is
just acting out of pain when
they seem to be hating. Again,
be there to help each other and
try not to react to each other's
pain. Try to work things out and
grow together. It is a chance to
heal the deepest part of you.
But
if you break up or your emo
partner does something foul to
you, don’t get bitter. I know
there is quite a lot of
misogynistic music and songs
about romantic bitterness in
emo. Find songs that allow you
to surrender to the sorrow and
explore your hurt, and stay away
from songs tell you that you are
a victim or should be bitter.
That is addictive fake
strength and you deserve better.
Emo, at its best, is supposed to
be about emotions and feeling
them to grow. Even in loss, it
is just as great of an
opportunity to grow, heal, and
find self love. By the way, this
applies for non-emo people as
well. It’s just that with emos
can be and tend to be more
emotional on average. No matter
what happens, I wish you well as
you move forward.
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Emo Haircuts Hairstyles 2012
Emo
hairstyles in 2012 are a combination of emo hair long model will be
combined so as medium emo hairstyles are more flirtatious and sexy look
that will add to the women to look younger with a mix of simple models
of clothes. Although impressed flirty but more energetic which will suit
the character of a romantic woman and hard worker. The survey results
in California salon owners at some time ago agreed that the emo
hairstyles as shown in the figure below is a tern emo hair in 2012 which
will be followed by millions of fans around the world emo hair.
In
the picture above is a mix of emo hair styles are combined with models
of medium length emo hair that seemed unbelievably energetic and sexy
appearance will be very supportive of women who had a quiet character so
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new sheet of a better life again.
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